Dating can be difficult for anybody, but it tends to get even more difficult when you add in busy or demanding schedules. MMA fighters, in particular, have intense training schedules and strict lifestyle needs, which can make meeting someone difficult. This doesn’t mean you can’t have a fulfilling dating life, however. Here’s how to make the most of your limited social time to build better relationships.
Get Some Help
While it’s nice to dream about the fairy tale meet-cute, it’s not likely to happen when you barely have time to even glance at another person. Luckily, you don’t have to go through this process hoping you’ll bump into the perfect person. A matchmaking service can work with you to find dates that match what you’re looking for in a partner. Compatibility is important in a relationship, and algorithms can’t always do it well, but good matchmakers have a lot of experience to back their process. If you decide to look for a matchmaker, Dallas has some great options.
Find Someone With a Similar Lifestyle
Some people have busy lifestyles, and that’s okay. If you enjoy what you do, and remain healthy doing it, there’s no reason to change just for a stranger who may decide they don’t want to date beyond a few weeks. While it can be difficult to get schedules to line up, dating someone with a similar lifestyle can be extremely beneficial. The time you do get to spend with one another will be appreciated since you both will have had to put in the effort to make that time in your schedules. Some people find it difficult to sustain a relationship like that, but others are satisfied with limited date nights so long as the effort is clear.
Make Time for Your Social Life
Even if you manage to snag a date with someone with a similarly hectic schedule, you need to make sure you set time aside for your social life. It’s a good idea to keep up with old friendships and spend time socializing because this can increase your chances of meeting someone organically. It’ll also help you get used to setting aside time for dates. Plus, humans are social creatures. If you spend all your time focused on training and ignoring the outside world, you’re more likely to get depressed. Your socializing muscles could take a hit too, making future encounters awkward.
Be Clear About Your Priorities
If you’re dedicated to MMA, whether as a hobby or as a career, it’s important to be honest about it at the beginning. Otherwise, you could date partners who expect you to skip a training session for a friend’s birthday. While balance is important, there’s nothing wrong with having priorities, and you need to decide whether or not you’re willing to be flexible going in. This way, if someone decides they would prefer to date someone with more free time, at least you were honest about your availability and never set an unrealistic expectation.
Don’t Bother With Unsupportive People
If MMA is important to you, it should be important to your potential partner. This doesn’t mean they need to know everything about it or that they need to show up to every match, but it does mean they should be willing to accompany you to some events and make an effort to learn more about your sport. If they aren’t willing to engage with such an important part of your life, the relationship probably isn’t going to last very long. Some people enjoy the clear cut between relationships and sacred hobbies or their careers, but being unable to share something you love with the person you love can also get pretty depressing.
The dating scene can be a nightmare even for people who don’t have to schedule every waking moment. As long as you are open, honest, communicative, and seek help when you need it, there’s no reason you can’t meet someone great.
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